The normal state of affairs is that partisans are constrained by the occupiers via civilian reprisals. I.e., if the partisans strike then the occupier detains, tortures or kills civilians.
Yet what is the situation in Iraq? It is the partisans who constrain the occupiers via civilian reprisals. It is the occupiers who strive desperately to protect the occupied citizens, sometimes stepping over the line as in Abu Ghraib, but with the purpose of preventing civilian atrocities. On the other hand, the caliphascists deliberately commit massacres on their own fellow citizens to punish the occupiers (aid and abetted by Old Media).
If that doesn’t make clear which is really disdainful and uncaring about the Iraqi people, then you’re obviously not part of any reality based community.